The Anger is Killing You, Dude
“When the essential male nature as nurturing protector is squandered, men lash out. Maybe that erasure of males’ essential nature as nurturing beings is why when I listened to a podcast interview with Jordan Peterson, a Canadian philosopher who has been embraced by a lot of men’s rights groups, I reacted negatively. It was like an alcoholic being offered a drink again. It seemed he was a vehemently anti-feminist and as a Christian he echoed (as cleverly as he could but still unmistakably) the fundamentalist crap I was raised on. He was telling other men that when they want to put a woman in her place, this is what nature (and/or God) intended. In a deeper way, Jordan comes off as a toxically antinurturing-male. He seemed to be dog-whistling to a lot of disenfranchised boys or angry men who have a hard time keeping up the front of authority over others, with rhetoric about the so-called hero’s journey (a common narrative archetype, involving a hero who goes on an adventure, learns lessons, wins a victory with that newfound knowledge, and then returns home transformed).”
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